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Posted on April 29, 2008 by Documentary Log in lifestyle, society
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For some people finding a partner in life can be difficult. 10 years ago, a small factory in California began making alternative partners. This is one of those strange documentaries I found. Seems like there are a lot of lonely individuals out there who are willing to take it to the extreme. A small warning; there is some adult content.

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posted on March 02, 2010, 03:50:22 PM
comment #4048
Wise Flow

Porn is a billion dollar industry. Men masturbate to porn which is not real. With high definition technology it makes the videos even more real. Men have become addicted to this fantasy world and many prefer this over their girlfriends b/c real women cannot meet the unachievable standards of beauty. Many relationships have failed as a result of obsession to porn. This real doll is simply a higher level of the society’s attraction towards fantasy over reality. Similar to movies and to video gaming.

We are living in a society where people are hypnotized into being attracted to fantasy over reality. These men are a reflection of society, we are all within this hypnotic society. If prostitution was legalized it would be rampant, this is worse than masturbating even if you are masturbating with an object. Many women find even more sexual pleasure in a vibrating dildo over a real man, men cannot compete with this technology.

I do not see these men using a real doll for sexual purposes disturbing b/c due to the sexually repressiveness of this culture, this has been a result, addiction to porn is a result, prostitution is a result, internet dating is a result, paying for overseas wives is a result, marriage is a result. Men have been paying women for sex in many different ways, objectifying them and degrading them into nothing more than sex objects, this is worse. But what seem awkward to the public is when these men become emotionally connected with these objects and search for a friendship in something that is not living.

It’s likened to having an imagined friend. It may be hard to find a life partner, a sex partner, but it is not difficult to find a friend. These men should not have to result in using objects as friends. But in the same token many human being search for these friendship in animals who do not speak back though are living. In a sense if a human being can relate to a tree as much as he can relate to a human being, that is real compassion. These men are relating to a doll, which to the ordinary person will seem disturbing.

They should search for friendships from men and women, as far as their sexual expression is concerned, using porn, masturbating with or without objects is nobody’s business but their own. Just as many may see homosexuality as a taboo, it is still a human right, they have that right, this is no different, they are hurting no one and they do not deserve to be emotionally bashed on.

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posted on February 24, 2010, 03:11:26 PM
comment #3936
rob

these people have very deep seeded emotional prblems, very serious emotional problems. crearly they cant deal with life.

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posted on February 21, 2010, 02:13:08 PM
comment #3882
dwyane shaw

Well....this is one of the strangest films i've seen. I agree that its all a little twisted. But sex usually is - to varying degrees. Whether we admit it or not, everyone has their fetishes and fantasies

Trying to approach the issue nonjudgmentally, I would say these dolls are not much different, in theory, than the life-like vibrating phallus's that women (and, I suppose, gay men buy). No one has much problem with that practice.

Still, I find the idea of sex with an inanimate object a little odd. But, then, I wouldn't want a vibrator either.

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posted on January 16, 2010, 11:41:21 PM
comment #3326
Wishy

Hmmmit makes you wonder whether this is where Joss Whedon got his "Dollhouse" TV series idea from...

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posted on December 30, 2009, 08:24:38 PM
comment #3079
Docuchick

I was really surprised by this documentary. I went into it with the mindset that these men were sick and I was going to be disgusted by their stories, but I wasn't. Instead I found myself feeling compassion for them. My heart ached for these human beings that had such low self-esteem that they had given up on finding companionship. It was really quite sad.

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posted on December 29, 2009, 10:56:35 AM
comment #3061
Logic

Quite a realistic invention, I say. Let these guys be man, it is a hobby, a fantasy and u cant get aids. At least they wont get in shit when they forget the B=day!

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posted on December 27, 2009, 10:34:51 PM
comment #3034
liz <3

"...here i am a SUPERHERO!"
with all that confidence, he should be able to get a woman! LOL :)

seriously tho, the day i ever get jealous of my man & a doll...is the day i commit myself. LOL

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posted on November 29, 2009, 10:07:42 PM
comment #2536
Phil Kravitz (from Brooklyn,NYC)

I will ask the question here....


When you take a rubber fuck doll out to dinner...who pays?

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posted on November 29, 2009, 12:00:49 AM
comment #2523
casey

To each his own but at least one of the guys has been failed by themselves, friends, family and society.

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posted on November 21, 2009, 04:05:16 PM
comment #2430
squirrel

Pygmalion?

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posted on November 12, 2009, 10:50:08 PM
comment #2312
SeanP

It's a great big who cares. It's a bit nutty that people have left more comments about these guys humping a barbie and how sick it is then have commented on the human cruelty doc with all of the rape and child abuse.

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posted on November 12, 2009, 05:56:33 PM
comment #2309
falah

pathetic and very very sick.

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posted on November 10, 2009, 10:17:04 PM
comment #2300
ivan

But they are mentally ill right?

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posted on November 02, 2009, 04:47:34 PM
comment #2184
JC

Let he who has never had a secret fetish, an unusual sexual fantasy or a deluded, unhealthily one-sided emotional relationship of their own cast the first stone. As long as everyone's a consenting participant and no one gets hurt, whatever someone chooses to do in search of sex and/or love is their business. The fact that an inanimate object has no love to offer these lonely men in return is entirely their problem.
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posted on October 30, 2009, 11:36:17 PM
comment #2154
Becky

I suppose it's better for these men to get a 'real dolls' than become rapist.

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posted on October 28, 2009, 01:30:20 PM
comment #2093
Ryan
This is a reply to comment #1899

how about obama's wife doll? lol

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posted on October 28, 2009, 01:28:31 PM
comment #2092
Ryan

I was just woundering...if these dolls have mutiple partners, can they spread stds? lol
With that said, I wounder if the guy that works on them and had sex with two of them happened to clean them before and afterwards.
Might have been a good idea, lol

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posted on October 19, 2009, 05:12:07 PM
comment #1969
allisson

IF a documentary can be made about sex dolls, will there be one about other sex toys? like swings? i still dont know how they work, or what purpose they serve and so on. I tried really hard not to judge these guys. But wow. I just dont see the point. If you have a few grand for a love doll, go buy some girl a bunch of jewelry and clothes, a real girl. and if you have a doll, hide it befor your real life living dollfaced gf comes over. Dont put them on display!!!
Also, i seen in the documentary that a guy was cleaning the dolls, well, female region with a bottle cleaner!! Litterally a baby bottle cleaner-i had the same one for my son : ( And he also said she smelled of fish while he was cleaning her. Yeah, i was a little lost for words. IDK, i guess i judged them a little harshly but oh well.

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posted on October 14, 2009, 06:05:52 PM
comment #1906
Prudence Halliwell

wow these guys are LOSERS!!!!

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posted on October 14, 2009, 12:29:00 AM
comment #1899
Sal Morino

I know a GREAT marketing idea!!


OBAMA love dolls!!!!!



Girls (or Queers) get your Obama Sex Doll NOW and fuck the Nobel Prize winner anytime you want.

Only $5678 while supplies last!

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posted on October 14, 2009, 12:26:09 AM
comment #1898
Leroy Jackson

To any pinhead who thinks that fucking a rubber love doll is NORMAL I will say....do the world a favor and shoot yourself.

To the limp wristed panseys who want to say "don't judge"...I say back you are just as sick as they are.

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posted on October 04, 2009, 03:07:06 AM
comment #1794
WTF

Its sad they have to resort to dolls for there pleasure, what about prostitutes lol
But they seem ugly, low self esteem, weird.
Just watching this makes me want to be more confident and friendly so i ever end up like these guys

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posted on October 04, 2009, 02:16:53 AM
comment #1793
RDogg

Lol- that guy Slade almost nutted talking about fucking his dolls.

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posted on October 01, 2009, 02:36:05 PM
comment #1771
Barbara

Oh, man, this is creepy on so many levels, and so sad. Fascinating.

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posted on September 28, 2009, 06:42:05 AM
comment #1740
Oscar
This is a reply to comment #1633

Leroy Jackson said:
"So what does one do? Condemn their doll scrogging sickness or extend them sympathy and understanding because of their pathology?"

how about neither, they don't deserve to be condemned nor be given sympathy. They are not hurting anyone, if they choose to masturbate with more complex means than you do, who cares?

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posted on September 20, 2009, 08:02:53 AM
comment #1633
Leroy Jackson

I think that these guys are so out of touch with reality that the fact that they fuck a plastic doll does not register to them as perverse and unnatural.

Also the fact that they willingly appear on camera as treating these rubber fuck dolls like real woman is further evidence that they are touched.

So what does one do? Condemn their doll scrogging sickness or extend them sympathy and understanding because of their pathology?

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posted on September 17, 2009, 08:00:51 PM
comment #1584
BradJones

Why would anyone want to be shown on a documentary doing this!??!! Its weird, at least keep it to yourself! Why do they talk about the dolls like its a relationship??? Its fucking made of plastic! lol. I think these dolls were made for off nights when you cant get laid or are too lazy to go out, it doesnt mean you have to quit real women.

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posted on September 16, 2009, 11:49:32 PM
comment #1574
Joe

What a bunch of sick fucks!!

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posted on September 12, 2009, 11:21:30 AM
comment #1538
crazy

i should break up with my girl and get a doll no more drama but then i couldent spit the rent lol

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posted on September 02, 2009, 08:40:11 PM
comment #1442
Mr. Leon Washington

Can anyone watch this movie and not see what these men are suffering from is a form of Mental Illness? How can anyone see this deviant behavior and not call it what it is.

You wont see a brother with a fuck doll...no sir. Only nerdy white dudes with a serious case of uglies.

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posted on August 28, 2009, 02:05:13 AM
comment #1400
tc

Wtf!! Is that guy massaging the doll´s feet?...wtf! o.O

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posted on August 28, 2009, 01:56:11 AM
comment #1399
Jay Cross

Can you get an STD from a Love Doll?

Something like

Latex Simplex Plus?

Or

Plastic Legions Sarcoma


Just wonderin

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posted on August 27, 2009, 10:35:35 PM
comment #1397
Dries

These guys are like.. from mars

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posted on August 22, 2009, 12:37:58 AM
comment #1364
Todd

Notice none of the dolls can sit upright properly because they've all been pounded to death. LOLZ

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posted on August 20, 2009, 06:49:42 AM
comment #1358
Stanley Jones

Questions....


Where does one go to be a Fuck Doll Doctor?


Why does the Doll Doc not wear gloves when fixing the broken doll snatches....GROSS!


ALSO how long does a Doll Pussy last before it needs replacing?


What about domestic violence issues? What if you beat the shit out of your Doll Bitch?


Just wonderin.....

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posted on August 20, 2009, 06:42:14 AM
comment #1357
Phuck Puppet

Better Latex than never.....

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posted on August 20, 2009, 06:14:26 AM
comment #1356
Karl Deinister II

If all I could get was Doll Pussy I would NEVER show my face on TV. Raping a lifeless dummy? Where does that get fun?

Copulating your brains out with a rubber woman has to the depths of depravity only one step up from Child Pederasty.

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posted on August 20, 2009, 06:05:57 AM
comment #1355
Desie Retread

These retched retched people. How can we allow these guys in modern society to slip through the cracks like this? This is a mental illness.

I feel so sorry for the bloke from the UK. He seems like a very nice guy. I do not understand why some guys are so alienated from women that they turn to a pathology like Doll Sex for comfort.

This is just another sick twisted symptom of 21st Century life.

I do not judge these men. I feel that they are victims of a bankrupt society that alienates those who are considered outsiders.

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posted on August 20, 2009, 05:45:47 AM
comment #1354
Hanni Y

I think I would shoot myself before I would have sex with a puppet. This is some SICK SHIT man! There are PLENTY of women out there just as desperate and ready to take whatever they can get. Why fuck a plastic doll?

Only in USA is there sick sick shit like this.

Damn.....

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posted on July 20, 2009, 05:57:04 PM
comment #1168
t.a.r.d.

"Here I am, a super hero..."
Um, ok. Delusional much???

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posted on July 19, 2009, 06:39:00 PM
comment #1162
awesome

Most awesome line from any film is when the real doll doctor says, "And I'm running out of vaginas!" Hahahaha

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posted on July 18, 2009, 02:56:28 PM
comment #1152
what's the problem?

I think Davecat could easily get an "organic" girlfriend. He is good looking, articulate, and interesting.

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posted on July 18, 2009, 02:20:58 AM
comment #1149
Just female dolls?

I wonder if they make guy dolls, too.

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posted on July 17, 2009, 06:44:30 AM
comment #1146
Deanna

I loved this documentary, it was amazing.


Oh, calm down. They don't need your pity. They're perfectly fine with having their real dolls so let be happy any way they can, even if it is "un-natural" to you.

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posted on July 16, 2009, 03:45:55 PM
comment #1142
confused

I have so much going through my mind right now. I'm confused but probably not as confused as the dudes in this doc.

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posted on July 16, 2009, 03:34:12 PM
comment #1140
pueezzy

ok..... I have no idea what to say. It's interesting lah...

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posted on June 22, 2009, 11:03:36 AM
comment #1028
Kitty

This is very interesting but quite unsettling. I can't help but think that these men suffer from much of the same disorders that some of the women in My Fake Baby and Beccah Beushausen. However, I could be totally wrong and misjudging them. They could truly be happy, like what DaveCat said, he likes to be alone but not lonely. However, I am sure that the majority of men in love with dolls have serious trust or self confidence issues. In fact, this documentary gives me self confidence issues. I feel useless, or too useful.

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posted on June 20, 2009, 06:19:28 AM
comment #1015
karemin fox

Alienation SAD yes indeed.
I Agree she would be fun in an experiment for fun and pleasure so it be. And yea, do these human like figures really feel as soft and wet as the real human . Nothing like that could possibly feel better than the real live female. atleast not in my world. As to say, to each there own. What one does behind their walls is their pleasures of experience, however, she would be the life of one of our pleasure parties. party. Shoot, my friends would love to share fantasy with her.

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posted on June 20, 2009, 06:10:20 AM
comment #1014
karemin fox

Amazing,
I want to meet and invite a women to move into my flat. she would love the attention and admiration.

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posted on June 19, 2009, 01:52:14 AM
comment #1005
Guess

Haven't sen the whole documentary yet, but that first dude was so freaking sad. I don't quickly call someone a loser but man...what a loser he was.
I feel bad for his dad!

Getting a girlfriend is never that hard that you need to resort to a doll. How can you even consider buying one of those creepy things!?

I thank that money would be better spend on some therapy and/or courses in dating/socializing.

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posted on June 18, 2009, 08:32:55 AM
comment #998
dbchin

I realli love this documentary.
However I guess real dolls only sastify a small part of mankind but.... i'm utterly fascinated that human can though of sumthing like tat.

Glad I look like a dollie already, If not my bf probably might go get one of these dolls.

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posted on June 16, 2009, 11:02:44 PM
comment #987
Pitch

No ofence but I want to know why they're so satisfied... In my opinion having a doll would make me want a real girl more. Each to there own though, I guesse.
The documentary was well put together, I think you should have had more time though.

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posted on June 09, 2009, 10:23:18 PM
comment #956
Hm

Hey Davecat, what do you think of those japanese robot dolls?

Technology is growing very fast. Its most likely that an advanced version of a "fembot" might be available to you in your lifetime.

If that option becomes available to you, would you "upgrade" from Shi-chan?

Also I'd just like to say I think you look fine and shouldn't have much problem with real women.

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posted on June 08, 2009, 11:48:09 PM
comment #950
doesn't matter

This is so sad... they have only one purpose in life: to have sex and nothing more... and that's the reason why women avoid these kind of guys... maybe they ( women ) can be tricked once, twice but it won't happen forever. It is normal to be young and feel the need to experience stuff like sex. parties and crazy things but in time you grow up and think more about more serious things like a career, having friends and a social life and more important and, in my opinion is the most important thing in life, having a family, procreating. I would agree with this documentary if at least one of the guys would admit that the "real doll" is not what they would want from life. For a not so good looking, decent, educated and good guy it is impossible to try and not to be able to find a beautiful girl to love him.

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posted on May 02, 2009, 06:20:44 PM
comment #768
Jenny

I suggest that they get puppies, which are chick magnets, or try online dating!

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posted on May 02, 2009, 03:21:34 PM
comment #767
Big G

Mike has spent $24000+ on dolls. He could have bought 50% of thailands brides for that, tut tut, Silly Man

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posted on April 27, 2009, 09:27:15 AM
comment #750
Julia

Before watching this film, the only dolls I'd ever seen were the cheap blow up style. I assumed they were joke items and would wonder who'd buy one for sexual use. This film showed me the hurt and heartache these men endured any why they felt they needed a companion doll. I do hope, however, they seek therapy and realize their own self worth; that they can build healthy, loving, lasting relationships with living women. All relationships are a mix of give and take. I'm sure out there are women who would love you with all their hearts. They may not have the manufactured beauty of the doll or its passive nature but real women can give you so much more. Don't give up hope. You'll find your Ms Right if you'll be willing to open up and accept her as human, warts and all ;). Good luck to you.

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posted on February 20, 2009, 05:41:35 PM
comment #537
Faith

After watching this video I was left feeling ambivalent. It is very sad that these men feel so alienated and fearful that they choose to have relationships with inanimate objects rather, which can never truly return affection, rather than having relationships with organic people. However, each of them men also reported unrealistic expectations for what they would want in a partner in addition to unwillingness to go through the struggles which, inevitably, make up human relationships. As a woman I feel relieved that these men have found a way to satisfy their needs without imposing their unrealistic expectations on any real, feeling women. As a human I feel sad these men have chosen to pursue connections with objects which will reinforce their negative self concept (they are unlovable) as well as alienate them from being able to form bonds with real people who could help them realize that they are worthy of love.

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posted on February 20, 2009, 05:50:26 AM
comment #536
ss

so sad, I feel for these guys, but I cannot help but snicker a little.

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posted on February 20, 2009, 04:46:08 AM
comment #524
Penn

My friend Green has several and my friend CC wants one, and I can understand why. Real women can be a pain at times. Well on second thought maybe these dolls are more women than organics in many ways.

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posted on February 18, 2009, 07:21:48 PM
comment #516
alex

this is just a dildo for man if you ask me... not a big deal...

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posted on February 18, 2009, 07:20:11 PM
comment #515
alex

well this is just a dildo for man if you ask me , girls have a vidrator .so what is the big deal.....?

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posted on January 30, 2009, 06:00:30 AM
comment #421
Dave

I think this goes to show that as human beings, we aren't solitary creatures. We are in need of companionship and a sense of being wanted, regarldess of it's form. I will admit, it seemed strange initially, but who I am to judge?
I think this documentary said a lot more about human nature than it did about lifestyle choices, or dudes trying to get laid unsuccesfuly.

Also, I found it particularly interesting, as I am sure many of you did, how in the beginning it seemed the Texas guy used the dolls as a buffer for his lack of "real" human contact, but in the end, when he had that human contact, it was the dolls that drove his girlfriend away.

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posted on December 23, 2008, 03:25:16 AM
comment #299
holy crap!

sorry, but if you 're comparing having a girlfriend to onwing a doll you don 't deserve a girlfriend...

these people need an IQ and to learn some respect

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posted on December 13, 2008, 04:08:59 PM
comment #280
Tamara

If these guys actually took care of their looks and hygiene,it wouldn't be so hard to get a girlfriend.

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posted on December 04, 2008, 10:05:29 PM
comment #265
ditto

INSANE! r they just lonley peopl? or perverts.u decide!

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posted on November 21, 2008, 11:26:58 AM
comment #227
paul

Cant beat wet pu$$y. Get yourself out in the real world. Why would anyone want to f**k dolls? Because they have a small penis, scared of women laughing at them. Best part of sex is listening to the woman enjoying herself. If these people want lifeless sex, Why dont the perverts go dig up a grave.

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posted on November 19, 2008, 02:19:49 AM
comment #224
robneryka

PISS ON all ya'll closed minded idiots! we love davecat and would like to know how you & Shi-Chan have been doing?!

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posted on November 19, 2008, 02:15:47 AM
comment #223
RobnEryka

We liked your documentary very much. It did a nice job of displaying the human companionship that should be viewed as more acceptable by our societies, especially for men who can't obtain other women, or so choose not to.the adapted companionship and value created by these men showed us a very different side of the story then what we have thought thanks to mainstream culture.rock on dudes!

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posted on November 16, 2008, 08:00:20 PM
comment #217
crisie

davecat u are so handsome what really happened to you wow it is soo sad i hope you will get help

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posted on September 13, 2008, 08:35:10 PM
comment #146
Brandi

I agree with you davecat. People fear what they can't understand. Im sure most of the men who watched this either have or wished they had a doll. If you are happy that's all that matters.

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posted on September 13, 2008, 07:28:27 PM
comment #145
Davecat

Oh the guy in Texas has 8 dolls, but I'm creepy? Get a life! I guess you're creepy for watching my documentary.

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posted on August 30, 2008, 09:06:07 AM
comment #113
Kittygreen

I seriously found this disturbing. To live with a doll and proclaim it's due to loneliness must really mask some other psychosis. It's just wrong and unhealthy.

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posted on August 25, 2008, 10:21:17 AM
comment #100
K.

I agree that this is one of the most heartbreaking things i have watched in a long time. Its shocking and maybe it is a little creepy, but at the end of the day these are sad, lonely men trying to find a way to be happy.

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posted on August 19, 2008, 04:34:09 AM
comment #90
A

These men are so heart breaking. I can't imagine the pain that they have endured. I hope that they recieve unconditional love.

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posted on August 12, 2008, 10:21:01 AM
comment #81
nameless

they all remind me on teabag from prisonbreak

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posted on July 30, 2008, 12:41:16 AM
comment #64
crr

lol at the guy at the end having a party w/ his girlfriend and his dolls.

davecat is the creepiest of all.

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posted on July 29, 2008, 03:26:11 AM
comment #63
Sprixi

Ahaha. Scene black guy with a realdoll?

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posted on July 26, 2008, 05:16:24 AM
comment #58
jerry

This is horrible, why would anyone want something like this! Kind of funny.

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posted on July 24, 2008, 05:19:18 PM
comment #53
steviedee

fascinating doco, could easily be a series. Thanks for the link.

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posted on July 23, 2008, 04:56:34 AM
comment #50
Chloe

This is very bizarre...I mean, they're not harming anyone, and I'm one of those live-and-let-live types of people, but this is just plain creepy!

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posted on July 21, 2008, 12:56:06 PM
comment #48
J B M

WTF thats wierd

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posted on July 21, 2008, 04:51:30 AM
comment #46
Flash

Davecat = CREEPY

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posted on July 20, 2008, 01:04:58 AM
comment #45
Lucie

That is so bizarre, but so fascinating. It really puts a face on this whole doll thing.

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